tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post2089882823039495425..comments2023-05-31T00:31:02.670-07:00Comments on slap happy musings: so i said i needed a stoning, and yet, please don't pelt me yet. pretty please?Lohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13423252966429853592noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-25664834144514204612009-06-22T16:55:31.341-07:002009-06-22T16:55:31.341-07:00I'm so sorry, love :-( It's never easy to ...I'm so sorry, love :-( It's never easy to lose family. They're a very real part of who we are. This is a wake-up call for me because I have family members I'm blocking out for similar reasons but I know I would die if I ever lost them. You and your family are in my prayers. Blog/vent/cry/scream, do whatever you need to feel better. Hugs!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181894081615098424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-12222194470299816752009-06-22T07:44:31.533-07:002009-06-22T07:44:31.533-07:00I'm sorry to hear about your grandma. I hope ...I'm sorry to hear about your grandma. I hope you can find peace.....because you still deserve it. And I still love you. We can't MAKE people be healthier. I wish SO BADLY that we could. Don't be so hard on yourself though.Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16802676910426739288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-84003159295808494622009-06-22T07:36:11.214-07:002009-06-22T07:36:11.214-07:00Wow, girl. You have had a major life shake-up.
So...Wow, girl. You have had a major life shake-up.<br /><br />Sorry to hear that your Grandma has passed. I was not close to my grandmother, but I was very close to my grandfather. And when he passed? Yeah, I went through a whole mess of emotions.<br /><br />It is how we process. How we deal. <br /><br />I keep thinking about why he didn't fight harder {he found out he had lung cancer and chose not to fight}....then I realized, he missed my grandmother. She passed years before him. I think the cancer gave him an out, a way to leave to be with his wife, w/out any negative judgment.<br /><br />I have never written or spoke about him before. I miss him everyday. It does get easier, but it takes time.<br /><br />That is what you need now. Time.<br /><br />Time to deal with your emotions. The best thing is, no one can tell you how much time to take. That is all up to you. If you feel the need to blog about, do it. It is your blog, after all. And it can be very good therapy.<br /><br />Remember I am just an email away if you want to talk/vent whatever.Perfectly Unperfecthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11724019015467799976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-18432043090894494962009-06-22T07:06:47.416-07:002009-06-22T07:06:47.416-07:00Oh Mei Mei! I'm so sorry. And I do know how y...Oh Mei Mei! I'm so sorry. And I do know how you're feeling. You're angry & upset because you miss what COULD have been. The relationship you could have had, had things been different. Had she cared enough about herself, loved herself. Use this knowledge. Remember to ALWAYS love yourself and you and everyone around you, will be happy.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14626678045896424852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-18732141886700619102009-06-22T05:31:34.820-07:002009-06-22T05:31:34.820-07:00it's good that you admit how you feel and to g...it's good that you admit how you feel and to get it out there.<br /><br />there are lots of us who have those feelings about people in our lives and we do get angry with them when they're self-destructive! but don't have regrets...i'm sure just your being there with her in her last day, she knew how you really felt. because you didn't have to be there, you know.Marchellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10837513631701432273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-86863477818611365322009-06-22T05:23:16.574-07:002009-06-22T05:23:16.574-07:00Ahh, we love you Lor and are all guilty of the sam...Ahh, we love you Lor and are all guilty of the same. Don't be so hard on yourself.<br /><br />Everyone else...hug your Mom.Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2513609994481701942.post-83551508637443049082009-06-21T23:54:46.779-07:002009-06-21T23:54:46.779-07:00I am so sorry. I am in tears. Please try not to be...I am so sorry. I am in tears. Please try not to be too hard on yourself. I am sure your grandmother knew you loved her. Things happen, we don't always do the right thing, but we learn,and those who love, us, and we love back, forgive us....even when we do not say 'I love you' enough. Rest. This will take time. Your heart is hurt, you are tired,and you should feel each emotion as it comes. Only time will help you. I am so very sorry.Iva Messyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10569911896394751235noreply@blogger.com